Wednesday, March 31, 2010

Prayer Requests from Sunday service 03/28/10

Wednesday, April 1, 2010

Saundra and Jon H.: With thanksgiving, we request peace. We pray for our company and our employees. We pray for success in Jesus name.

Robin S.: Pray for continual ability to receive. I accept God's new vision for my life to "see beyond" present circumstances, not only for me, but for my children Tim and Taryn. God Bless.

Karen and Shaun H.: Karen;For guidance from God on finding a job without travel and deadlines. For the success of Shaun's business and new opportunities. Praise for the incredible blessing of our 9 week old son, Jonah.

Devin R.: For more work.

Danna S. Issues at work and financial matter that needs resolution.

Summit Life Church: Continued prayers for the individuals in the neighborhoods around us that do not currently attend a church or might be feeling hopeless right now. Prayers for our marraiges in the church; that they remain strong and protected. Easter service- for transformation in the minds that attend; that they would hear just 1 thing that could transform their mind to be more like Jesus! Prayers for our board and newly appointed Chairman of the board...that we will continue to hear from God as to what to focus on this year. For X-changed Life ministry training - protection for those who have stepped out in faith to be trained as leaders, for wisdom and discernment as we teach them.

Monday, March 29, 2010

THE MYTH OF HOPELESSNESS
Mark 15

If I were to ask you, “what are your chances of surviving a plane crash” what would you answer? 50%, 20%, 5%? What if I told you that statistically speaking your chances of surviving a plane crash are 95.7% - yes 95.7%.

So why does our mind conjure up “hopeless” scenarios? Because our responses are based on our perception; what we have seen and heard about “plane crashes”.

Our minds have been programmed to “give-up” or “lay-down” when met with certain scenarios.

- “The odds aren’t very good.”
- “If this happens there is little hope.”
- “If they couldn’t do it… there is no way you will ever do it.”.

What are the odds of you making it through a hardship or disaster? What are the odds that you have victory over depression or addiction? 100%; either that you will make it or 100% that you will not make it.

Percentages offer the option for lack AND positions us to accept failure. “There is an 80% chance that something will happen…” That 20% is our “fall-back” our justification if something does not happen. See how that works.

It works both ways – favorable or not –

USUALLY:
Percentages provide a way of justifying disappointment – that is not the gospel – that is not what Jesus demonstrated.

The dangerous consequence of the “Myth of Hopelessness” is that when people consider there’s a possibility that they won’t “make it” (the percentages are not in their favor) they put themselves at even greater risk of doing exactly that… not making it.

YES - The battle field is the “mind” and that’s the problem – the mind is not the seat of faith – the heart is.

The battle takes place in our soul (Mind, will and emotions). The direction your mind takes will lead your emotions and your will. Once you loose your willingness – you loose your chance for overcoming.

WHY? Without willingness,

- you have the answer,
- you put limits what is possible.
- You decide what will happen.

We find ourselves in the 5th week of Tools for Navigating through life:

1. Situational awareness.
2. Deal with Reality
3. Remain Calm
4. Militant faith
5. The Myth of Hopelessness

Chapter 15 of Mark provides one of the most hopeless days in all of eternity… deicide (the death of God).

1. Jesus had been delivered (by His own choice) to Pilate
2. Pilate then delivers him over to be crucified
3. Jesus is then mocked by the soldiers
4. He is then crucified and buried.

What strikes me as I read this account is this. Was Jesus hopeless? It sure appears that way. He seems to just roll over and take it. It’s as though he is convinced that “the odds are against Him” and there is nothing he can do to save himself… he’s succumb to the “hopelessness”. However, that is my perception of His reality. My perception is not truth… I don’t know what was going through His mind I can only speculate.

What I see as hopeless… God sees as unlimited possibility
What I see as closed… God sees as an opening

God takes the weak things of the world and uses them for greatness – he is able to use our weakness and transforms it to strength.

Isaiah 42:1-3

- I need the cries of the masses encouraging me / God needs the voice of just one.

- I need a battering ram to break through / God needs a broken and bruised reed to accomplish His purposes.

- I need an all consuming fire / God needs a dimly burning wick to bring light and life.

God is able to breakthrough with a calm voice, a broken weed and with the slightest flicker of light. God is so gentle and powerful that if given the slightest amount of “genuine faith” He can change the course of history.

We find these simple yet powerful elements in Mark 15:

A calm voice – 15:2.

A broken reed – 15:19

But where is the dimly burning wick? Well… you can’t see it. But I think that’s the point of hope. If I can “see” hope it is not “hope”. It has moved from hope to actuality.

- “I hope my car is in the parking lot – once I see that it is – it is no longer hope it is actuality.”

o Romans 8:24 – Now hope that is seen is not hope. For who hopes for what he sees. But if we hope for what we do not see, we wait for it with patience.”

By the end of this message I pray you will be able to see the light.

Why so hopeless?

Hopelessness get’s its power from isolation.

- Physical isolation; when people are alone they easily succumb to hopelessness.

o Prisoners of war are isolated so as to make them hopeless.

- Jesus was isolated from things familiar.

- He was placed in circumstances where there was no one on his side.

At one point Jesus was separated from God. Void of relationship from His father.

- To say he was isolated is an understatement for he had no relationship to God.

Hopelessness gets power from the “build up” of the unknown.
- The greater the “build up” – the more prone we are to hopelessness.

o Proverbs 13:12 – Hope deferred makes the heart sick…

- Jesus went through a build up of circumstances:

o One on one conversation with Pilate.
o Being paraded in front of the people with Barabbas.
o Being physically assaulted by soldiers.
o Being physically assaulted, mocked and walking among the people.
o Being placed on the cross, stripped naked, nailed to the cross and put on display in front of thousands.

Have you ever “gotten the call” from your boss? “I need to see you tomorrow at 10:00.”

- No information is given.
- You can’t think of any reason.
- You can’t sleep that night.
- You feel sick that morning.
- And by the time your boss tells you that you are going to receive a promotion you can’t even enjoy it.

Hopelessness partners with fear.

- When people feel afraid they become hopeless and make decisions that perpetuate hopelessness.

o Saul sought council from a witch. (1 Samuel 28:1-7)

o Peter cut off the ear of a servant of the priest – which carried a sentence of death.

o In Jesus’ case he did not partner with evil… but everything around him did.

Have you ever seen “world’s wildest police chases? What is the primary reason people run from police? It’s some minor offense; like I have a warrant for a parking ticket, I’m on parole, my license is suspended or they have two other speeding tickets and were afraid. Any time I partner with a spirit of fear and act upon that fear the only possible outcome is sin.

If you arrive at a place where you are hopeless you have succumb to one of these factors:

- Isolation
- The build up of the unknown.
- Fear

So… in light of these elements it would appear that Jesus must have been hopeless… right?

But he was not because:

He did not consider His circumstances.

- This is not to say that he did not “deal” with His circumstances.

- This is also not to say that he did not “feel” His circumstances

• What I am saying is… he did not consider His circumstances as the final word on His destiny.

- Romans 4:19-20 – “And not being weak in faith, Abraham did not consider his own body, already dead and the deadness of Sarah’s womb. He did not waiver at the promise of God through unbelief, but was strengthened in faith, giving glory to God and being fully convinced that what God had promised He was also able to perform.”

Listen if I considered circumstances the final word on people’s destiny – I’d fold up my bible and go to CafĂ© Brazil for breakfast. And honestly… there are people sitting there right now because they consider their present circumstance to be the final word on their destiny. And they are hopeless.

He saw beyond the present moment.

Hold your hand with fingers closed in front of your face so that you cannot see me. How hopeful are you that you could count the number of fingers I am holding up? Now, spread your fingers apart and look at me – how hopeful are you about counting the number of fingers? When I focus on that which is directly in front of me – I am not able to see the possibility of hope.

• When it is a literal focus on an object that impedes your vision… it is relatively simple to look beyond it.

• In this case for us to “see beyond the present moment”… it asks that we consider events that have not yet occurred.

- That we take, by faith, the supernatural promises of God and draw upon them for hope.

Jesus looked to the joy that was set before him and endured the cross, despising the shame… (Heb 12:2)

- What was the joy that he saw?

• That he would be seated at the right hand of the throne of God. (Heb 12:2)

Why is it important for me to see beyond the present into the promises of God? Personally, it allows me to navigate through life without being undone. Corporately, Whether or not I choose to live out faith in the promises of God for my life… will affect the lives of others.

NOTE: Think if Jesus did not consider the joy that was before him? What if he didn’t live out His faith in what God had promised?

• All of us can think of someone who is choosing to not faithfully broker the promises of God in their life – and what that is doing to people around them.

• Now, compare that to a person who is standing on the promises of God – despite the odds, or the circumstance – they are not dissuaded. What does that do for those around them?

My choice to see beyond my present circumstance is NOT JUST FOR ME – it is for others that will stand upon what I create.

He did not think about similar situations and their outcomes.

This circumstance is unique.

- Jesus had witnessed many deaths… not pretty… not very good odds. And yet there was one – that of Lazarus – but then he knew that his day would come as well.

What are the odds of being raised from the dead? 100% with God – either you rise or you don’t. Honestly the pressure is not on you it is on God. In creating an atmosphere of hope in your life it is wise to not think about similar circumstances and their outcomes – either good or bad.

Why?

When I consider similar circumstances and their outcome I have just allowed a spirit of comparison to take up residence in my life. When I choose to compare my life to anything other than God’s destiny I have partnered with an inferior system. It’s as simple as thinking that people who have a larger house than you do are happier and more content. What has happened to others in similar circumstances has no bearing on my success or failure. Jesus remained hopeful despite the odds because he did not think about the way things went for others…

- He took God at his word, “Nothing is impossible”.

In choosing to treat every circumstance as unique you create an atmosphere of unlimited possibility. “Nothing is impossible with God”.

• Your parents have been divorced – what are the odds of you being divorced?”

• “The results came back from the doctor –

• You are the favorite to will first place -

You can get hope back – it’s your decision – all God needs is a dimly burning wick.

Wednesday, March 24, 2010

Prayer Requests from 3/14 & 3/21 services

Wednesday, March 23, 2010


Tim S.: I need prayer for my entire family. My mom and Granny to have good health and a prosperous job. My Grand fathers to continue in their old age the same as in their youth and to praise you God. Gor my little sister Taryn to keep on keepin on. And for me, I need some help.

Alan and Kathryn T: Traveling to CA = prayers for safety and eyes open for opportunity. Prayers for son, Adam (7) staying with Grandma.

Pansy: Job - have been very busy - prayers are being answered. Need prayers for focus, concentration and stamina to endure the challenges and manage time wisely.
Mom - update. Sinus infection causing headaches, being treated with antibiotics. I will be meeting her in Marshall on saturday for a one day visit.

Jenna W: Praise the Lord for drawing me so close to His heart, especially in the valleys of life! Prayer for provision, wisdom for Aaron and what He needs to do in regards to a job and music.

Chris G: Please put blessings and prayers on my brother Michael and his wife Kristin as they struggle through the many trials of a brand new baby, Ada Griffin. God bless them and you!

Timothy - continue to walk with Christ, Taryn - Focus on Christ, Robin - Get a great job.

Saundra and Jon: Anniversary of Jason Shelton's death.

Sue Ann S.: has a sonogram on her galbladder tuesday 4-23 at 6:15.

Jenni S: - restore marriage. Spirit to forgive and release of mind set binding marriage. Crenshaw's safe flight home from Hawaii.

Anonymous: That God will provide a good job for me. Claiming this verse, "I shall supply all your needs, according to His riches in Christ Jesus" Take no care for what you shall eat, etc. For son: continue to be encouraged in the Lord and seek His will for his life.

Anonymous: Wisdom for our political leaders; that they will make decisions whicch are in God's will and foresake their personal carnal desires.

Summit Life: For individuals that have signed up for "X-changed Life" ministry training which begins 3/24. "X-changed life" is a Christ centered process delivering hope and support to all who seek a peaceful life. Also, for our TEAM SUMMIT participation in this Saturday mornings MS walkathon in Addison - that we will be salt and light! (Matthew 5:13 and Matthew 5:14)

Thursday, March 11, 2010

Summit Prayer Requests from Sunday 03/07/10

Thursday, March 11, 2010

Rodney S:
For my best friends father named Mr. Gules Hofacer who is being treated for a throat cancer which has returned. Please pray for this darkness to be removed and buried beneath his feet and for Christ salvation savior to be accepted by Mr. Hofacer!

Alan and Kathryn T:
Prayers for us to be growing closer to Christ and each other each day. For us to be aware of and open to where He is leading us. Give us courage and trust to follow Him anywhere.

Saundra and Jon H:
Pray for our employees. We pray for additional work in Tennessee and Alabama, so that our employee in that region may stay closer to home. She is a single Christian mother with a two year old son.

Anonymous:
Pray for all my children and my family whereever they are.
Daughter Debbie-living with a drug felon
Son James-going through divorce/custody
Son Rey- lost job
Son -Rey - wife and kids going to mexico for a week
Me- to trust God and have peace.

Pansy
Praise - good report from Dr's this week - "normal" for another year
Prayer - Job no pay increase this year possibley the next four years, layoffs are looming in the future, pray for God's protection and provision over my co-workers and I.

Aaron W: Friend at work lost his wife who was battling heart disease. They have two small children.

Christina P: For mom's health. She is 84 and had a bad panic attack Sunday evening.
For sis in law in Minnesota - peace and healing to her body, mind and soul. Wisdom and discernment for God's guidance.


Summit Life: Upcoming community events; Summit Soak - that many would pass by and stop for a car wash and a prayer! Walkathon- That we can be a light in the midst of 4000 and give of ourselves to the community and the cause. Prayer Point- Beginning March 26th - that people driving to work who are hurting, or worried, or hopeless would turn in for prayer and feel God's love and peace and leave there with hope. Marraiges in our church- That God would protect them and make them strong in Him. Staff- That we would hear from God and take time to do so in every decision that we make.

Monday, March 8, 2010

Sermon Notes 3/7/10 - Dealing with reality

Mark 11: Dealing with Reality

What is “REAL”? Is what I perceive REAL? – but is what I perceive to be REAL – TRUTH? (not always)

Reality is not what “I want it to be” – there is a school of thought today that propagates a ‘secret’ way of positive thinking in order to create truth – that truth is based on my believing something is so. No, that is witchcraft. Witchcraft is about controlling the reality of this world; people or events.

The first tool in navigating through life is recognizing that I do not control reality.

Despite how much I believe something is or is not real – I must deal with the truth and respond.

So – while I do not control reality I do control how I choose to respond to reality, whatever that reality is.

My response is directly proportionate to how I think – so in a sense my thinking is my reality… but again it is not necessarily TRUTH.

REAL LIFE is about managing my thinking. As I manage my thinking I allow the truth to determine my reality.

- Do not be conformed to this world but be transformed by the renewing of your minds.”

It’s the matrix… and according to the bible a truth. There is another world (another reality) that we cannot see with our eyes, a reality in which, if I have accepted the gift of salvation, I have been placed and “sealed”. And while I am already there… I am still here.

A tool in navigating through life is my ability to see this reality through the lens of that reality. That I am able to deal with this life in the context of that life.

How does that shift in perspective happen? I begin trusting in what I cannot see instead of what I can.

In a crisis there is a paradox – it’s named the “Stockdale Paradox” and it is this: "you must never confuse faith that you will prevail in the end with discipline to confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.”

Jesus dealt with this reality through the lens of the kingdom. Everything Jesus did was a result of his choice to broker the kingdom of God into this world.

He only did and said what he saw and heard from the Father.

In chapters 11 and 12 of Mark Jesus provides a number of lessons for us in “dealing with this current reality” – most of which are harsh truth about people, life and this world.

Why such the downer? To prevail and live a victorious life it is necessary to confront the most brutal facts of your current reality.

1. People are capricious – (Mark 11:1-11)

The same people that shouted out “Hosanna” (save us now) stood and mocked their proclaimed king a week later.

This is due to a misplaced expectation and the resentment of that unfulfilled expectation.

- Why? The difference between their expectation of what Jesus was supposed to be – and the truth of who he actually was. They expected an overthrow of the system through war and governmental rule – when they did not get that… their affection turned and the harsh reality of capriciousness raised its fist.

2. Appearances are deceiving (leaves are not fruit) – (Mark 11:12-14)

In context Jesus is referring to Israel and how they appeared fine from a distance yet inwardly (within their leaves) had nothing of value.

- True reality is not external it is eternal.

- So, how should we deal with this reality? Two ways; the first – seasons (time) which is of this world – time is one your side. The second – through the prompting of the Holy Spirit which is not of this world.

3. People will try to justify their behavior - Justification is not a valid reason – (Mark 11:15-19) – justification is not truth.

The temple priests justified their behavior; of overcharging and taking advantage of the poor, by saying they were helping them. They were convinced that they were making life easier for their fellow man.

I mean – who would want to travel a great distance with a sacrifice only to find upon their arrival that it was not acceptable? They believed their actions were justified because of convenience. Although it violated the poor and profited by fear.

Think about it… the world’s reality is one of convenience, ease and simplicity… - “I’m just trying to help…”

The kingdom’s reality is one of perseverance, duty, sacrifice and discipline… - “I’m striving for greatness…”

- Do you live a life of convenience or duty?
- Do you do what is necessary first, or what you want to do first?
- Do you justify your behavior? Particularly with “They made me… or “I have too, there is no other way…”

4. As a Christian - You will live in denial – (Mark 11:20-25)

Again, the fig tree represented Israel and their fruitlessness. In addition to that imagery Jesus uses it to provide a “reality” check on faith.

Faith in God will appear like denial to those filled with unbelief.

Dealing with reality is a balance of what my mind believes and what my spirit knows.

Faith (belief) does not come from the mind – it comes from the heart. The mind is a brilliant servant in a horrible master – but it is not the seat of faith.

- We undermine tremendous faith by what we think about.

- True faith is not the denial of superior reality it is a denial of the effect and power of inferior realities.

(v21) Why the abrupt shift from Peter saying… “Hey look at the fig tree that you cursed – it has withered.” To Jesus answering, “Have faith in God…”

- The point is; don’t look at the physical result of prayer – that’s the wrong perspective.

- The tough thing is, according to Jesus, to pray without doubting. To believe something will come to pass.

- That is not to say every healing or deliverance that does not happen is a lack of faith – the payoff (result) should not be the focus.

- The payoff is a heart that is convinced that nothing is impossible with God.

- If there must be a payoff or “manifestation” of a prayer – I have prayed for the wrong reason.

- When I attach a “result” to faith/prayer I have placed the supernatural within a box that I have created.

For example – healing is within God’s will – what happens when I do not get the result “I” want in regard to healing?

- I question God. I stop praying. I loose faith. I despair.

Jesus reveals to us a couple chapters later the key to navigate through unanswered prayer.

- An acceptance of the Fathers will. He prayed for this cup to be taken from him… it was not.

- How did Jesus do this? He understood the “other reality” of heaven and eternity.

5. People will prefer safe? (Mark 11:27-12:12)

- The chief priests and scribes refused to answer a very specific question (to which they had the answer) with a lie of “not knowing”.

- They played it safe –

CHAPTER 12

From this point Jesus is tested by the predominant religious leaders.

- We’ve already encountered the Sanhedrin (11:27-12:12) – Their question was one of authority. These were the keepers of the law the historians of the day (the House of Representatives) and while they should have known the traits and nature of God they had forgotten.

o Why did Jesus ask them about John the Baptist? For the simple reason that God does not teach us new truth if we have rejected the truth he has already revealed.
o The Sanhedrin had rejected John the Baptist… therefore they would also reject Jesus.

6. The Reality check here – if you don’t learn the basics you cannot learn the complex. If you don’t know the basics of riding a bike (balance and momentum) – the complex doesn’t matter (inertia, gravity, force, energy…) If I don’t know the basics of the bible (sin, heaven, hell, forgiveness) … I cannot know the complex (atonement, sanctification, Christology, Eschatology).

NOTE: Living out the bible is not difficult – it’s impossible – it’s very complex - but that’s the point… because it’s impossible it is necessary for me to exist in the reality of basic – for it is only out of understanding the basic that the deep complexities of God are revealed.

The Pharisees and Herodians (2:13) – money/taxes – essentially a question about responsibility. Yet these two groups hated each other at every other time in history. The Pharisees thought the Herodians (a group granted power from the Roman Empire) were usurpers of the throne of David.

o Their “trap” about responsibility was thwarted by Jesus – by giving us another “reality to deal with” – “there will be taxes”. (haha)

7. In this scenario the lesson (deal with reality) is that you will always be under authority.

- Moreover, obey and respect authority – don’t be divisive.
- There will be governmental and spiritual authority.

The Sadducees (2:18) – sex/relationships/marriage – this line of questioning is about eternity. The Sadducees were the “religious aristocrats” of Judaism.

8. The reality here – you don’t know everything – and additionally (no one knows everything). Be teachable.

The Scribes (2:28) – priorities/values/ - their question falls under the heading of priority. Of the 613 various commands – which was the most important… love.

9. Deal with the reality of facing the truth. Face the truth honestly - “Not far from the kingdom of God” means – a person is facing truth honestly.

10. The final reality that you must deal with for most is the most difficult: It is this - you’re of tremendous value – but you’re not that important. (12:41-44)

Rich people were putting in large amounts of money into the offering box with a big production. A poor widow put in a penny with little fanfare.

- The lesson is about giving. It is not the “portion” but rather the “proportion” that we give.

- The truth is about value – and what is really important.

If a person is important because of the title they bear, the place they live, or the car they drive their “importance” is artificial.

Again, examine Jesus… where did he spend his time? Who was important to him? What did he demonstrate?

The final reality is that you have value, but it is not because of the amount you can offer – it is because of what was offered for you.

For example: in the world things that are of value has a cost that is associated with them. The higher the cost the more value that is associated with the item.

So think about your value – God paid a price that is beyond the measurement of worth. He gave His life to “purchase” you. You have so much value that there is not a worldly figure that can be associated with it – it must step beyond the natural into the supernatural for the price to be recognized.

That’s a lot to deal with;

1. People are capricious.
2. Appearances are deceiving.
3. People will try to justify their behavior
4. You will live in denial.
5. People will prefer safe
6. If you don’t learn the basics you cannot learn the complex.
7. You will be under authority.
8. You don’t know everything.
9. Face the truth.
10. You have tremendous value.

Tuesday, March 2, 2010

Sunday Prayer Requests 02/28/10

Tuesday, March 2, 2010

Shawn P: For spiritual growth as I've ended a 10 year relationship. Pray for this for him - Gary, and also for my son Chad.

Jeff: I'm working too hard to find my time alone with God while I'm explaining what I think @ Him to everyone else - Pray for me to be guided to His will, not mine.

Steve and Bryn: Mother is moving in with us this weekend with niece and we would request prayer for patience, understanding and unselfishness. Also that we would be a light to minister to their lives.

Anonymous: So many years focused on how to date and get a husband- but not on how to love my husband. Please pray for me to come to know how I can best love my husband to be. Not sure I really know how just yet.

Anonymous: So glad we got to come today to church! Chruch was great! Please pray for us as we are in final preparation and as we continue to stay pure - so worth that we know!

Eli P: Prayer so that the Lord continues to prepare my heart - for marriage to Kerry; and that I "flow" better for Him in the midst of these circumstances (including work) Thanks!

Molly Jo and Jeff: That we can have babies :)

Taryn S: Please pray for me that the people at my school will be nice to me and stop calling me names, making fun of me, and also for my soccer team to work together. (They do the same thing on my team) also I need help to make friends because I feel lonely and pointless. I need help giving my life to God and not be afraid to be who I am. I need help to not be peer presured to change anything just to be seen or get attention. I feel lonely all the time and I need God to fill my life with love and support.

Alan and Kathryn T: Safety for Alan on his trip to Nashville. God's guidance on opening doors to opportunity.

Faith M: My sister Rainy Rose in Charleston, SC age 78 broke her leg- please pray for a speedy recovery.

Tim S: I am having a hard time and I know prayers will help me. I just want to be reassured of my place in God's great plan.

Tim S: Pray for my mom - Robin Surovik and sister Tonya Surovik. I pray my mom finds the job it seems she has eternally been searching for. Pray that my sister is unphased by the torment she must experience at school.

Kerry and Mike P: Where to move my home church. Direction and to be used and involved.

Chuck - Big meeting on Monday. Pray for success and responsiveness of his audience.

Chris E: My husband has been layed off work. I pray for a door to open!

Saundra & Jon H: We pray for our business and our employees. We pray that we are set ahead as a Christian company.

Anonymous: I need a job

Robin S: Please pray for Michael and Laura Surovik and all of their co-workers at Sea World Orlando, as they experience the loss of Dawn. Laura, my sister in law and my brother Michael have trained the animal's with her for 20 plus years. Michael and Laura are dedicated Christians as was Dawn.

Robin S: My children, pray for Taryn against persecution from girls at school. That she would know how to respond to inconvenience at these times. Tim - continued strength to overcome and seek God's will.

Chirstina P: Friend, Aimee Barnes- pregnant, possible bleeding this a.m. - pray for healthy baby and to go full term - they have tried for years to be pregnant. For their faith to grow through this experience. Also for friend Amy D., inner healing from former church crisis. And that the schemes of the enemy no longer keeps her from experiencing true fellowship and the essence of "family" with other believers.

Summit Life Church: That our church can be used in the community of Addison to serve the town and the people. That the holy spirit draws people to the church in need. That our congregation will be a light in a dark world during the week and tell others of how their hearts can be touched, their minds can be transformed and they can be trained to be disciples for the kingdom of God.

Monday, March 1, 2010

Tools for Navigating through life - Sermon Notes 2/28/10

“Real Life” – is about navigating through the adventure. It’s a balance between dealing with the reality of this world and the reality of heaven. The balance between “faith” (what I cannot see) and “physical” (what I can see).

How do people survive plane crashes? What about being ejected out of a plane going faster than the speed of sound – where the force on a body is around 9000lbs? How about a sinking ship?

How do people survive a divorce – drug addiction – or the dark hole of depression? How are people able to balance a loving God with the horrible happenings in life?

Over the next five weeks we’re going to take a look at these scenarios and the key factors of how people navigated through life and survived – not only survived but thrived. We are also going to examine the final weeks of Jesus life and how he reveals some tools to navigate life. What did Jesus demonstrate as he faced his crucifixion and in the end how his life provides us with the greatest “tool” to navigate through life.

A key tool in navigating through life is whether or not you “know your surroundings” and “remember where you are”. In addition, it is helpful to play out the scenarios of “what could happen” and have a good handle on what you would do in a moment of crisis.

MARK 10

Jesus had just entered the region of Judea – the final weeks before his crucifixion. He still had large crowds following him throughout the region and as was his custom he began teaching them.

Much of what Jesus taught in his final weeks were what we might call “situational awareness” – “what would you do if/when (“this”) were to happen or present itself?” How are we to respond?

It’s almost like he is saying… “Alright, listen up – somewhere in the adventure of life you’re going to face this – and this is what I want you to remember.”

Chapter 10 (of Mark) contains 5 scenarios or “situations” (5 to Survive) that present themselves to every person on the face of the earth;

- Loyalty
- Status
- Priorities
- The desire for greatness
- Inconvenience

1. Loyalty – the scenario of divorce. (10:2-12)

What would you do if your spouse came to you and said that they had been unfaithful? Even if you’re single… have you thought through that scenario? It happens every day. What would you do?

One reason people die when they should have survived in a disaster is what has been termed the “incredulity response” (people simply don’t believe what is happening to them) – they freeze and think, “This really isn’t happening to me”. Those are the people that die needlessly; sometimes just feet away from the doorway that would have led them out of their predicament.

They have never considered the possibility of what they would do in the event of a disaster and because of that – they die.

Divorce causes death; emotional – at times physical – and often spiritual… but it doesn’t need to be that way.

While we can create a worst case scenario about marriage Jesus is not teaching about divorce because he expects it to happen… honestly he “hates” it according to the prophet Malachi. What Jesus is teaching about is the hardness of peoples hearts and their unwillingness to be loyal.

Jesus lays out the scenario in no uncertain terms; “Whoever divorces their spouse and marries another commits adultery.”

- “Why so harsh Jesus? I mean, really… if you had to live with them and their behavior… you’d divorce them too.”

• The truth is… Jesus does live with them; everything about them including things you’ll never know and he does not “divorce” them.

A reason why people “freeze” and die is negative panic. There is no stored experience in the brain and since the brain can’t find a match it gets stuck in a loop of trying and failing to come up with a response.

In this situation – where is your reference when it comes to loyalty – to faithfulness? Jesus will NEVER leave you, He is always faithful, despite “you” he remains steady and true. So on the issue of loyalty – think through the scenario of your relationship with God.

2. Status - dealing with status (10:13-16)

Jesus places before the crowd the 2nd scenario that they would deal with in life. The issue of status. How will you handle not being “first” – how do you respond when someone else takes your place. Can you deal with being “wrong”? Can you celebrate others victories or do you die in the sea of bitterness and envy?

- Children had no status in society during the time of Jesus… it was not until their Father proclaimed them as a son that they were recognized as citizens.

The disciples rebuked (reprimanded harshly) the parents of the children but Jesus aware of his surroundings provides another “tool” to navigate through life.

Let the children come – in other words, “Deal with it! You’re not first all the time in this world… as a matter of fact – there will be people that find favor that you don’t even regard… can you handle it? It’s not about being “first” it’s about being “faithful”!”

In times of disaster your status in the world means little. President or pauper – danger levels the playing field.

3. Priorities – determining what is really important (10:17-31)

Whether or not you survive is often a matter of your priorities: what is really important – what should be first on the list of things to do; one thing – forget your luggage, leave your computer, forgo saving your family album/cat.

To survive it is necessary to do the next right thing – It’s always one next “right” thing.” To stop death – STAY CALM, set priorities and do the next right thing.

• In moments of disaster you will be overloaded with data (people screaming, “this way”, other yelling for help, find “one voice” to listen to – generally following someone that has “what you want” is a good place to start.

NOTE: Is their advice opinion? Is their advice biblical?

- Jesus encounters a man who “bum-rushed” him as he was leaving the town. His question, “Tell me what I must do to inherit eternal life.” – in other words, “What’s really important, what should be first on my list of priorities?”

- Jesus’ response; obey the commandments. To which the man replies… “done”. REALLY? Yeah that’s what Jesus thought as well… REALLY?

- But not to embarrass the young man Jesus adds an additional term.

- Jesus tells the young man, “Make following and obeying me more important than anything else – make “me” your first priority.”

Placing Jesus at the top of your priority list simplifies life; there is no grey. Life becomes a matter of light and dark (no dusk). Now I realize that this will draw a few groans, “You know… man where is the grace?” Listen, I have received grace… but it has not been from people – what I have received from people is love and forgiveness. The bible does not tell me to extend grace to people – I am told to “love and forgive”.

- The moment I believe that I can decide who I “extend unmerited favor and kindness to those who do not deserve it I have become god (with a little “g”)

- Where do I get off on deciding if “someone deserves” kindness?

- No, I’m called to love and forgive…

- In truth, God extends “grace” one time… at the moment of salvation – the rest of the time…favor is usually a result of my obedience.

Making Jesus first – loving and forgiving… short and sweet. Everything else is a distraction that leads me away from navigating through life.

- Grace is about extending “unmerited favor” that in a carnal sense appears of the side of “good”.

- Love is about truth, patience, kindness… and the rest – at times “love” in the carnal sense appears on the side of “not good”.

• No, life is not about receiving grace – life is about receiving love. Even when it doesn’t feel like love.

4. Desire for greatness – how far are you willing to go? (10:35-45)

Another scenario we read about is that of James and John and their desire for greatness.

- James and John pull Jesus aside and say to him, (Like my 10 year old when he wants something that he knows he will not receive).

• “Hey Jesus, we want you to do for us whatever we ask of you…” That’s like saying, “Dad, don’t say no… alright… say yes… even though I’m pretty sure you’re going to say no.

Jesus knows that there is a desire in all of us for greatness after all he placed it there – the trouble is that it’s been forced into a system that it was never intended to be placed – the world’s system.

- Greatness now is; a large house, possessions, a title, popularity and power.

- Greatness in the kingdom is; service, obedience, modesty and honor.

In an emergency there is a fundamental question everyone must answer; “How far are you willing to go to save your life?” Are you willing to crawl over dead bodies or people who have frozen in place (due to fear) to save your life?

In the kingdom the question is the same; “How far are you willing to go to save your life?” Are you willing to confess that sin no-one knows about? Are you prepared to give up “your time” to help someone else, when given the opportunity – are you willing to do the things that do not receive the spotlight?

In a moment of crisis there will be moments when things don’t go as planned – Jesus closes the 10th chapter with a final tool that helps us “navigate through life” –

Dealing with inconvenience and un-planned situations.

5. Inconvenience – what will you do when your plan runs into a “distraction” (10:46-52)

Bartimaeus had nothing to loose; he had no status in society, because of that greatness was a far-fetched idea he could not afford to spend time worrying about. He had a single priority; get close to Jesus… get close to Jesus.

Because he couldn’t walk through the crowd he decided to throw his ego to the wind and began to yell out, “Jesus, Jesus – hear me – listen to me – help me.” I don’t care what others will think… I’m in the dark over here and you are the only one who can help.

In navigating through life, a tool that should be within reach is “flow”.
The tool of flow is powerful – it transforms “inconvenience” into “opportunity”.

Jesus was headed out of Jericho into the region of Jerusalem – more specifically Bethphage. He had purposed to go to the Mount of Olives and initiate the sequence of events that would result in his death. I don’t know about you… but I would imagine he had a lot on his mind.

Yet in the midst of his eminent death before him he was able to “flow” and seize the opportunity to demonstrate his priority – the power to transform lives.

Have you been inconvenienced this week? How have you responded? I’m convinced that when my plans run into an unexpected occurrence… that is when I am positioned for opportunity.

You see… confusion is part of being “inconvenienced” – confusion is from Satan. When we meet confusion with the kingdom principal of possibility – we declare our loyalty, our status, our priority and our view of greatness.